Many people think that the best way to keep someone is to chase after them. However, these are not long-term solutions. The best way is to make him unable to leave you.

When a person wants to leave you, no matter how hard you chase after him, he will still leave. When this person can’t leave you, that’s when you truly trap him.

Love is the Only Thing that Can Trap a Person

Don’t try to control others with your own ideas or external pressure. Only when this person wants to stay, can you truly trap him.

Since ancient times, men have been accustomed to pursuing women, and few women pursue men.

So, if a man is as wild as a horse and not under your control, no matter how you chase him, he won’t fall for your trap. Therefore, when he can’t leave you, that’s true possession.

Make the Other Person Realize Your Importance

Once, a friend said to me, “My boyfriend never comes back home, and every time I advise him to come back early, he ignores me. I treat him so well, why does he do this?”

I told my friend, “Sometimes you have to learn to play hard to get.”

So, after my friend went back, she stopped paying much attention to her boyfriend.

One day, her boyfriend ran over and asked her. She told him that because he didn’t care about her, she didn’t want to care about him either.

That’s when the boyfriend realized the seriousness of the situation. When my friend got angry, he felt like he was going to lose her, and then he realized he couldn’t leave my friend, so his attitude towards my friend changed drastically, and he started spending more time with her.

There’s a saying, “Do you only realize my importance when you lose me?”

In love, sometimes you have to use some tricks to make the other person realize that they can’t leave you, so that they understand your importance.

Improve Yourself to Attract Others

Sometimes, you have to improve yourself in order to attract others. Many people think, “Because you love me, you have to accept all my strengths and weaknesses, and because you love your husband, everything I do is right.”

Don’t think too highly of others’ willpower, and don’t think too highly of your own charm.

I have a friend who pursued her husband at the beginning, so after so many years, she has no say at home. Her husband said, “Go east,” and she didn’t dare to go west. Although she is a very obedient person, she still doesn’t get her husband’s respect.

One day, by chance, she went to a company to design wedding dresses. In this company, she met many famous people, improved herself, and changed her previous appearance. At this point, her husband’s attitude towards her changed.

Some people say that in this world, apart from family, everyone is quite materialistic, and sometimes even family members can be materialistic. When you are not doing well, family members will look down on you.

When someone’s heart changes or when someone doesn’t like you, don’t try to win them back with your efforts. You have to become better in order to attract them again.

When I was young, we had a little dog at home. When I first brought it home, it was very unfamiliar with me. But as I spent more time with the dog, I suddenly found that it couldn’t leave me.

If an animal is not very close to you, one day it will run away. But if you do things in the right way to make this little dog unable to leave you, then this little dog belongs to you.

People and dogs are both animals, and emotions are the same. So, the best way to keep someone is not to chase after them, as you might chase them farther away.

The best way is to make them stop.

Only when they turn around and stay for you, unable to leave you, then you truly possess them.