They say, “People of the same sex repel each other, while people of the opposite sex attract each other.” This saying actually makes sense.

Men want to understand women because they like them, and women want to understand men for the same reason.

But the way women and men express love is different. Men are more direct, while women are more subtle.

Smart women usually won’t directly say “I love you,” instead, they will make an effort to understand you. When a smart woman wants to understand you, she will take the initiative to get closer to you at these three moments.

When You Are Under a Lot of Pressure or Feeling Sad

In our daily lives, everyone faces unspoken weariness because some sadness cannot be put into words.

As a man, there are times when you need hugs and comfort. Smart women understand this. The fundamental reason why a man falls completely in love with a woman is simply that he feels comfortable being with her.

A supportive wife and caring mother are the types of wives every man hopes for.

When a woman truly understands a man, he also becomes more dependent on her.

What overwhelms a person is not life itself but emotions. Emotional outbursts can leave a person breathless and feeling disheartened towards life.

When we are physically and mentally exhausted, we yearn for someone to accompany us and understand us.

When a man is burdened with the pressures and exhaustion of life, receiving understanding and empathy from a woman can provide a great sense of security.

When You Need Help or Struggle to Make Decisions

It is said that encountering a supportive wife is a man’s greatest blessing.

Men hope to meet a virtuous wife mainly because they desire someone to rely on when they are weary.

When you need help or find it difficult to make decisions, having a woman by your side who can help you through challenges is indeed fortunate.

Men face work and life pressures when they are away from home, and even if they feel wronged, they often bear it alone.

With responsibilities towards elders and children, the burden of family often leaves men breathless.

Smart women know how to communicate and interact with men in a way that men appreciate, rather than just complaining about their lack of romance or thoughtfulness.

It is often said, “You take care of your beauty, I’ll take care of providing for the family.”

This represents a man’s responsibilities and commitments, but behind these responsibilities lie bitterness and distress.

Life is not always smooth sailing for everyone; there are ups and downs that everyone must face on their own.

When you are at your most vulnerable, having someone lend you a helping hand can be very comforting.

Smart women are wise, understanding that even when a man is at his most clueless, he still needs someone to help him. Smart women grasp this concept and choose to get closer to you during these times, which can deeply touch your heart and make you rely on them.

When You Are Sick or in Need of Comfort

They say women are as gentle as water, and it’s true because a woman’s tenderness can bring calmness to a man.

“I love you, and for your happiness, I am willing to give up everything.”

When a woman is willing to unconditionally provide warmth to a man when he is sick and suffering, it deeply moves him.

Humans are emotional beings, and when someone is unconditionally kind to us, our feelings towards them are undoubtedly sincere.

At such times, men are more likely to open up emotionally to a woman who is willing to stay by their side.

When two people have emotional communication, their bond strengthens, and at this point, a woman is more likely to understand a man’s true thoughts.

Smart women know how to give men time and space. They don’t cling to men or cause them distress.

They understand a man’s emotions, empathize with his life, and care about his feelings.

Being with such women can help men relax, and conversing with them can make men feel light-hearted and content.

In real life, what men truly need is understanding. The more you understand a man, the more he will love you.

Why do men always prefer women with emotional stability? The answer is simple: being with such women is effortless and enjoyable.

In daily life, men face various work pressures, making them exhausted. If, during such times, a woman who truly understands him is by his side, the man will be delighted.

Smart women can comprehend a man’s heart, which is why men find it hard to let them go. When a woman takes the initiative to get closer to you, she will show extra care for you in these three areas. Don’t be clueless and miss out on this.