Faced with this problem, we are often very entangled, afraid that if we take the initiative, we will not be cherished, and we are afraid that if we take the initiative, we will appear to have lost.

In fact, since it is someone we care about very much, then we really don’t need to care about winning or losing so much. What is important is that we can win the other person’s like and that we can be together well.

Yes, it’s good anytime. Whether we like someone or get along with someone we like, of course we should take the initiative.

If you take the initiative, it will be easier for stories to happen. If you take the initiative, relationships will not be so prone to problems.

We don’t have to worry too much about who takes the initiative first. However, when taking the initiative, we must have a bottom line and make the next decision based on the other party’s reaction. We don’t always have to take the initiative alone. .

People who respond well to you will always take the initiative.

When taking the initiative with someone, whether it is sending a message to the other person, making an appointment to meet the other person, or taking the initiative to give in and apologize to the other person when a problem arises, there are always some people to whom he will give a good response.

For example, when he receives a message, he will reply enthusiastically. If you give him a gift, he will give back. If you are accommodating him, he will be like you. He will not always care about everything, but will also do the same. Very tolerant of you.

When you are close to him, he is also walking towards you. You want to have a good relationship with him. He also cherishes the relationship between you. If you like him, it is obvious that he actually likes you too.

The two of you will get along naturally, and you can often feel very comfortable when getting along.

For such a person, since your initiative is always valued by him, then of course you can always take the initiative.

A relationship where there are interactions, such as attraction to each other, getting along harmoniously, and both feeling equal, it will be a good relationship, and after marriage, it will also be a good marriage.

Throughout our lives, what each of us pursues is just a person who can always respond well to himself, and whose contributions and gains between each other can always be relatively balanced.

When you take the initiative, he will also take the initiative with you, never ignore your initiative, always give instructions, and respond to everything. Such a partner has already surpassed too many people, and it is simply hard to find.

If you are too humble, stop your losses in time.

It is everyone’s wish to like someone and be liked by the other person at the same time, to care about someone and to be cared about by the other person at the same time.

Everyone hopes that their relationship can be like this, but there are always times when we like someone very much, but the other person simply ignores us. We try our best to please, but we still can’t get the other person’s low eyebrow.

If you have done everything you can to pursue a person, such as constantly taking the initiative, giving time, money, and caring, but the other person still ignores you at all and obviously does not want to have anything to do with you, you In fact, there is no need to force it.

The same goes for getting along with someone, you can put yourself down appropriately, but if you keep apologizing every time and the other person is unrelenting, in fact, your relationship is probably not that healthy.

People who always make you feel unloved and just feel humble. When you work hard enough and do enough, the other person still doesn’t respond to your initiative at all and just makes you feel tired, even if you don’t want to give up. , you’d better let it go.

People who are not interested in you will always make you feel uncomfortable. People who are not equal to each other at all will not be the right person.

The more energy you waste on him, the worse you will feel about yourself and the more deeply hurt you will be.

Instead of becoming very humble in front of a person and unable to find yourself at all, when the other person touches your principles, you might as well withdraw your feelings and find someone who also knows how to treat you well.

In love, anyone can take the initiative, but your initiative must have a bottom line. Don’t let your initiative seem too embarrassing.

Originally, love is a matter between two people, and what is required is that two people like each other and work together.

Otherwise, if you are the only one who takes the initiative, is the only one who is attentive, and the only one who is planning your future, the other party will not follow your wishes, and you will not be able to find the motivation to persist at all.

Life is only a few decades long. To love someone, you have to do your best, but for happiness, you also have to know how to choose.

Not everyone is worthy of your love, and not everyone is worthy of your wholehearted attention.

If you are worthy of someone, continue with him. If you are unworthy of someone, after you have wronged yourself for a period of time, you don’t have to continue to wrong yourself. You deserve someone better.