Sometimes when chatting with many women, some women boast about how many pursuers they have.

But when it comes to how long these pursuers have persisted, many women say: some pursuers persisted for a few weeks, some for only two or three days, and some disappeared without a trace after being rejected by you.

The number of pursuers is not important. What matters is how many of them are sincere towards you.

In fact, when you refuse a man who pursues you, you have already seen his true intentions.

A person who truly loves you will not easily give up.

Some women say that some men behave very well when pursuing them.

But when rejected, these men will back off.

Some men pursued you vigorously a few days ago, but after being rejected, they sought another target to pursue.

Think about it, would someone who truly loves you easily give up pursuing you?

A friend recently told me that she chatted with someone on a social app, and this person asked her out. She agreed to meet him.

After having a meal together, the man started confessing his feelings. She was quite fond of him, but felt things were moving too fast, so she rejected him, saying, “Let’s just be friends for now.”

To her surprise, the man never contacted her again after she said that.

She asked me if her words had hurt the man.

What I want to say is: it’s not her words that hurt the man, but rather the fact that the man didn’t love her. Someone who truly cares about you wouldn’t leave just because of your rejection.

Many men have been rejected by women many times, but they didn’t give up and pursued the women persistently.

When a woman rejects a man, if he immediately leaves, it only shows that he just wanted a woman and didn’t truly care about you. You are just one of his many targets.

Someone who harbors hatred due to love does not truly love you.

Some men pursue a woman for a long time, but when rejected, they feel they have invested a lot and start to hate.

People often say, “It’s because I love you so much that I hate you.”

So, many women, after rejecting a man, face the man’s hatred and think it’s because the man loves them.

In real life, the phenomenon of hating someone because of love arises when you have established a romantic relationship and many things happen between you that deeply hurt the other person, leading to deep love and deep hatred.

But when it comes to a man pursuing you, and you rejecting him, and then him starting to hate you, it only shows that he doesn’t love you, but rather has an obsession.

Some men, after being rejected by a woman they pursued for a long time, not only feel embarrassed but also angry about the failure, and start feeling annoyed when they see the woman.

Truly loving someone means that even if the person rejects you and there is no future between you, you still wish for their happiness and well-being.

Someone who genuinely loves you doesn’t just want to possess you, but silently wishes you well no matter where you go.

Those who hate you and delete you after being rejected never truly cared for you from the beginning. Their persistent pursuit was just their own obsession.

People who pretend to be friends with you actually want to pursue you in a different way.

Some men, after being rejected by a woman, agree to just be friends with her.

Sometimes, through this friendship, the man captures the woman’s heart.

This kind of man is sincere towards the woman and quite clever.

They understand women quite well. When a man looks at a woman, it’s often love at first sight. If there is a connection at first sight, he feels he should pursue her.

But women’s approach to relationships is different from men’s. Women’s feelings need to be nurtured slowly because women are slow to warm up.

So, initially, a woman may not feel anything for a man and rejecting him doesn’t mean they won’t have a chance in the future.

Many lovers start as friends. As the saying goes, “Feelings need to be nurtured.”

After a woman rejects a man, if the man agrees to be friends, it makes the woman comfortable, eases the awkwardness between them, and also leaves room for him to pursue her.

A man who agrees to be friends with you has not given up on pursuing you but wants to capture you in a different way.

When a man pursues a woman, and she likes him but is unsure of his sincerity, she can try rejecting him to test him.

A man who genuinely wants to pursue a woman will not easily give up on his pursuit or harbor hatred. A smart man, after being rejected by a woman, won’t back off but will try to pursue her in a different way.