In love, do you often ask him: “Do you love me? Do you really love me?”
In love, many people, especially women, become worried about gains and losses, wondering: does he really love me, or does he just want to sleep with me or just have fun.
In fact, it is very simple to determine whether he really loves you. It is enough to look at the following 3 points.
1. Spend Money
A person who is willing to spend money for you without asking for anything in return is a person who truly loves you.
A person who is willing to spend money for you may not necessarily love you, but a person who is not even willing to spend money for you must not love you.
It is said that talking about money hurts feelings, but the most real relationship in the world must talk about money. Money is the touchstone to test the authenticity of a relationship.
People who truly love you will feel sorry for you from the bottom of their hearts, will spend money for you willingly, and want to give you a better life from the bottom of their hearts.
Even though he is just an ordinary office worker who lives frugally, he will not hesitate at all when buying things for you.
He works hard to make money every day, but he wants to share the money he earns with you or leave it to you to manage. This is a kind of trust and an expression of love.
A person who truly loves you will be unable to help but want to be nice to you, will be happy to spend money on you, and will give you the best within his ability.
Because he loves you, in his eyes, even if he gives you the whole world, it seems not enough. He feels that you deserve all the beauty in this world, and he is reluctant to let you suffer a little bit, especially the pain of making money.
Of course, this is also two-sided, because the feelings are mutual. If you just want to spend his money instead of loving him, then don’t blame him for just wanting to sleep with you and play with you.
Because in this world, there are many women who stay with men for money; they don’t want any love or affection, they just want to defraud him of his money.
If you really love him, you should know how to save money for him and manage his money instead of spending his money mindlessly.
A man who spends money to take advantage of you is a man who wants to sleep with you.
Have you ever met such a man? He keeps saying he loves you, but besides eating and renting, he is not willing to spend money to buy you a piece of clothing or other things you want. He is always stingy with you.
Once you ask him for money or tell him what you want to buy, he will think that you are materialistic and say that you are using money to taint your relationship.
If your partner is this kind of person, don’t think about it and leave him quickly. He doesn’t love you, he just wants to sleep with you.
People are born with a desire to conquer. Especially men, they naturally like to chase and conquer. Beautiful women are their favorite in life. They like to conquer constantly. There are even many men who are proud of how many women they have slept with.
Really, a man’s willingness to spend money for you sometimes represents your weight in his heart and the extent to which he loves you.
There is a saying that goes well: “Where a man’s heart is, his money will be spent.”
If your demands are not excessive, but he is unwilling to spend money for you and cares about money with you, then in his heart, money is more important than you, how can he love you? If I don’t love you, I will weigh and consider all the pros and cons.
Although people are not generous to everyone, if they really love you, they will not be stingy with you.
In a relationship, except spending money for you and marrying you, all the words of love don’t count.
Those who love you are afraid that they will not give you enough; those who do not love you are afraid that you will ask for too much.
2. Spend Time
The person who is willing to spend time for you is the person who truly loves you.
People who love you will definitely be willing to spend time for you; people who don’t love you will definitely not waste their time on you.
I love you sincerely, even if I am available day and night 365 days a year, I love you all the time, and I love you all the time.
People who love you will always be available for you.
People who truly love you will always have time for you. No matter how busy he is, as long as you are important enough in his heart and he loves you enough, he can’t help but miss you, want to know what you are doing, want to hear your voice, and want to see you; no matter how busy he is, as long as you are busy, He will take time to comfort you and help you, because for him, as long as you are well, it is his greatest happiness; no matter how busy he is, he will spend time with you, understand you, and cultivate feelings with you, even if it is just simple Have a meal with you.
The person who occasionally spends time with you is the person who wants to sleep with you.
For someone who doesn’t really love you, being busy is just an excuse. In fact, he just doesn’t love you.
Because he doesn’t love you and doesn’t have you in his heart at all. When he doesn’t need you, even if he is too busy to dig at the wall, he doesn’t want to talk to you, let alone come to accompany you.
He feels that spending time with you and getting to know you is a waste of life. He doesn’t care about your feelings. He just wants to get you as soon as possible. He will only think of you when he is the most lonely and bored; he will only look for you when he needs you.
Su Qin said: “The most luxurious person in the world is the one who is willing to spend time with you. Everyone’s time is valuable. Giving time to you is equivalent to giving your world to you.”
Companionship is the most affectionate way to love someone. Everyone’s time is precious.
Because I love you, no matter how much time I spend on you, it is worth it.
Don’t care so much about someone who doesn’t even want to spend time with you.
3. Spend Attention
People who are willing to put attention into you must love you very much.
People who truly love you will take the trouble to please you, ask about your hobbies, cater to your preferences, and often create little surprises for you, just to make you smile. They will take the trouble and enjoy it endlessly.
He will remember your birthday and every holiday, and will take great care to prepare gifts for you.
When you are angry or in a bad mood, he will try his best to make you laugh and make you happy.
If you stay up late, he will try his best to get you to go to bed early, because staying up late is not good for your health, and he hopes you will be healthy.
When you encounter difficulties, he will go out of his way to help you, and he cannot bear to let you suffer even a little bit.
If you are down and out, he will feel more uncomfortable than you. While feeling uncomfortable, he will try his best to enlighten you and lead you to cheer up…
People who make you happy occasionally are the ones who want to sleep with you.
Because he doesn’t love you, his mind is not on you, and he won’t notice your emotions.
Normally, if you tell him that you are feeling uncomfortable or something, or that it is a holiday, and want to hint him to give you a gift, he will just act stupid and confused, and may even find you troublesome and call you pretentious.
When you are down and out, he will leave you quickly and run away.
Only when he needs you, he will put some effort into making you happy, and then take advantage of the opportunity to get in. He can’t wait to play with you all night long every time.
Anyway, if he doesn’t love you, he won’t marry you home. He doesn’t care about your health or your future.
Love is all in the details, and so is not loving. Cherish those who are willing to put effort into you. Throw away people who don’t care about you as soon as possible.
On the road of life, it is easy to fall in love with someone, but it is difficult to love someone.
For the rest of our lives, I hope we can all meet someone who is willing to spend money, time and attention on us, and then we can live a happy life together.