Roland once said: “Dating is pursuing; marriage is chasing; divorce is questioning.”

Marriage means different things to each of us.

For a woman, the type of marriage you choose is the type of life you choose.

When facing marriage, be rational.

Many women face numerous family conflicts after marriage and may end up separating for various reasons.

The truths in marriage are generally similar, and if you don’t understand them, you won’t find happiness.

Many women only realize these four “marriage truths” after divorce.

Men Are Unreliable

Many women foolishly entrust everything to their partner after marriage, but this is the most foolish approach.

Everyone is an independent individual, even after marriage. Don’t put all your hopes on the man. Before marriage, a man may say, “I will support you,” but it may turn into, “You are supported by me,” on the day of divorce.

Sweet words in love are delightful, but true love is shown through actions.

Those who only talk about love without acting are meaningless.

Why do some women choose divorce? The fundamental reason is that they are not happy in marriage. Sweet words from men don’t work; only those willing to do things for you truly love you.

Many women realize after divorce that relying on oneself is better than relying on others.

Only when you become more successful will you earn respect from others.

In relationships, as in life, we should not depend on men.

Being self-sufficient in life will make the other person unable to leave you.

Men are unreliable. When a man makes promises, don’t be quick to be moved. Believe him only when he truly fulfills them.

Learn to Love Yourself

Many women become revolving around their husband, family, and children after marriage.

As a woman, even after marriage, learn to love yourself. Don’t lose yourself by loving someone too much.

Wu Li, 30 years old, just finalized her divorce yesterday. Before marriage, she was a successful career woman running her own company.

After marriage, Wu Li gave up her career for her husband, even transferring her shares to him.

She thought her sacrifices would be understood, but after 5 years of marriage, they faced many conflicts.

She regrets giving up her career for love. After divorce, her husband quickly found a new partner.

In reality, sacrificing yourself for love doesn’t move others. Only when you learn to love yourself will more people love you.

Mother-in-Law is Not Your Mom

The mother-in-law issue is a big problem in marriage.

Some women think their mother-in-law is like their mother, but there’s a big difference. A mother-in-law will always side with her son no matter what.

Handling the mother-in-law issue correctly is essential.

Never Chase After

Some women actively chase after their partners after marriage, out of love.

But this behavior may seem moving at first, but over time, the partner will take it for granted.

Loving someone is not wrong, but there should be limits.

When you chase after a man, he will see you as cheap, and over time, he won’t cherish you.

Marriage means different things to each of us. Good love brings sweetness, while bad love only wastes your time.

As a woman, be cautious when facing marriage.

Marriage involves many aspects, and when together, cherish each other.

Haruki Murakami once said: “If you love each other, grow old together; if you miss the chance, wish them well.”

When it comes to relationships, we should also have such purity.