Sex is an essential part of love, an integral part of love. Sex and love are complementary to each other. Without any one aspect, this love cannot be called a complete love. The two must complement each other. Harmonious sex can deepen each other’s feelings and make each other more obsessed with each other.
Sex makes love sublime and deepen, and love also makes sex sweet, passionate and profound. Sex is physical interaction, and love is the blending of souls. They are the same in this respect. They are both a process of giving each other the most private and unforgettable feelings and enjoying each other. Sex solves physiological needs, and love solves spiritual needs. The combination of the two is spiritual and physical satisfaction.
Sex is the instinct of human beings as animals, and it is the remaining impulse. Love is the advanced emotion of the opposite sex. It is abstract and competent, but also short-lived and fragile. Marriage is a companion in life. Since you choose to live with someone, you must Make compromises that sacrifice the freedom of your personal life.
For example, when boys are young, they like pure and kind girls. After entering society, they like mature and charming women. Just like you can’t always maintain a judgment on things. As for love one on one. The so-called love is also the best choice at the moment. We advocate loyalty in this process, but before choosing, there is often room for choice. The world is such a big place, and there are all kinds of similar or different people, so we can see from this.
As for the difference between family affection and love, family affection has the property of inheritance. Love is more about social rules of contract and interests. Of course sex is accompanied by dopamine, which brings two individuals closer physically. If the social norm from which we are born is that we can have sexual relations with any friend, regardless of gender. The so-called love has been diverted and is no different from friendship. But people always seek the balance of the smallest circle of interests. In fact, it is still a cognitive issue.
Because of the pleasure brought by sexual experience, the best way for both parties in love to maintain their relationship is sex. The pleasure in sexual experience can best eliminate the dissatisfaction and depression of both parties. Sex was originally the reproductive impulse of humans as animals, and it was not restricted. Men and women in the tribe could mate freely. But with the emergence of morality, sex was tied to love or marriage, and having another sexual object was regarded as unfaithfulness to love or marriage. But it is precisely because of this constraint that the family, as the basic unit of society, can emerge and be formed stably, and a stable family becomes a powerful guarantee for individuals to think about the collective and society, and on the contrary, better optimizes the composition of society.