Women all want to find a reliable partner to marry. So, whether a man is reliable or not is something we need to observe in our daily lives. Women with high emotional intelligence are good at observing whether a man is honest in the details of their daily interactions and whether he is worth entrusting a lifetime to.
For example, a person’s drinking behavior can very well represent their character. It is said that a drunk person speaks the truth, and using a person’s drinking behavior to measure their character is really accurate.
First, there are those who pass out after drinking, without crying or making a scene.
We often encounter this type of person at gatherings. Everyone is having a great time and drinks a lot, and then there’s someone who gets drunk and falls asleep on the table without causing any trouble.
Such people generally fall into two categories. One type is simply more innocent, trusting the others present, and believes that if they get drunk and fall asleep, their friends will safely take them back. It’s rare to have such a happy gathering, so they don’t want to leave until they’re drunk.
The other type is the opposite, knowing that more talk leads to more mistakes. Even if they get drunk, they keep their mouths shut to avoid getting into trouble. Either that, or they pretend to sleep when they’re only half-drunk, so their friends won’t have a chance to pour more alcohol into them.
To determine which type of man he is, you need to combine his other behaviors to know for sure. A man shouldn’t be too naive, but being overly cunning means he’s too deep in thought. If you are a simple woman, then it’s best to stay away from a man who is too deep in thought because you won’t be able to outsmart him.
Second, there are those who act crazy under the influence of alcohol.
Some people may not be affected by alcohol, but after a few drinks, their heads become unclear, and they say or do things they wouldn’t dare do or say normally. They use alcohol as a way to release themselves.
At the same time, they give themselves the hint, “I’m drunk, this is not my intention, my friends should forgive me.”
In fact, these kinds of men are even more undesirable. They want to achieve their goals by getting drunk and releasing their emotions. If they get married in the future, will they vent their dissatisfaction with you by getting drunk, and then come the next day, pretending to be pitiful, in order to win your sympathy and forgiveness?
There are often customers in restaurants who get drunk and start making a scene, shouting and even acting inappropriately towards young and beautiful waitresses. In fact, these people may not be drunk, they are just using alcohol to release and do what they wanted to do deep down.
They flirt with the waitress because they had that intention from the moment they entered the private room, it’s just that alcohol emboldens them.
Third, there are the silent types.
Not everyone will have a reaction when they get drunk. Some people become more and more silent as they drink. From a psychological point of view, these people are more introverted and tend to keep things to themselves.
If you are just ordinary friends, he won’t tell you too much about his private life. They won’t loudly talk about their private matters in public, or express their emotions. They will only confide in their closest friends or family. If the man you like is this type, there are both advantages and disadvantages.
The advantage is that he won’t talk badly about you to others, he will take your face into consideration, and they generally have more patience. If you don’t touch his bottom line, he won’t lose his temper easily. But at the same time, he also needs you to treat him in the same way.
The disadvantage is that if you have a conflicting personality, then you may have a lot of conflicts in your relationship.
He won’t constantly nag about your flaws, but he will hide his dissatisfaction with you deep inside, and when the conflicts accumulate to a certain extent, he will suddenly pour out all his dissatisfaction. If these conflicts are not resolved in a timely manner, they will only become the fuse for even greater disagreements in the future.
Fourth, there are those who become sociable after drinking.
Some people may not have such agile and flexible thinking in normal times, but under the influence of alcohol, they become talkative, articulate, and immediately become a socialite.
These people may have talents, but because they are timid and introverted, they don’t show their social skills. Under the influence of alcohol, they cast away their shyness and reveal their outstanding side.
These people are usually hidden talents. They have ambitions and are excellent in themselves, but they may have missed many opportunities due to their timidity. If they receive the right training, they will definitely be indispensable talents.
If you discover this advantage of his, you will find many more excellent sides of him.
A man’s character is reflected in many aspects, and drinking behavior is just one aspect. If you really want to assess a man’s suitability, you need to observe him more through the details of daily life.
People have many facets, and you need to understand all of his sides in order to truly understand him.
Marriage is a lifelong matter, not a child’s play. We’d rather spend a little more time to understand a person than regret our choice after marriage.
Marriage often magnifies our shortcomings, so be prepared. Marriage is not about romantic love, but more about the everyday necessities of life.