I agree with the saying that love goes in both directions.

But in today’s relationship between the sexes, many women are immersed in the satisfaction of being loved, thus ignoring the needs of their partner.

Or maybe you feel that what the other person wants is nothing more than physical pleasure.

In fact, for men, compared to physiological needs, what they really desire are the following three “feelings.”

1. A firm sense of trust

You know, a man is a boy until he dies.

As a woman, it is sometimes difficult to understand how much childishness a man can hide in his heart, and how glass-hearted a man can be.

They want to be seen, they want to be trusted, it’s that simple.

There is such a couple around us that many people envy. Even though they are separated by two places, they are still extremely loving.

Everyone was curious about the reason, and the husband said:

“Because we have been firmly chosen by each other, no matter how far apart we are, we choose to believe in each other unconditionally.”

You make money, and I take care of the family and support the children.

Yes, it’s the same for everyone. Although it’s hard to say it openly, in fact, we always feel insecure in our hearts.

Especially for men, it is a great happiness to be trusted unwaveringly.

When he knows that you can see his efforts and dedication, he will fight for you at all costs.

Remember, couples, simply loving each other is not enough.

Now that you have identified each other, you should trust each other and never destroy the hard-won sincerity and love because of your own unwarranted suspicions.

2. Appropriate sense of distance

Women are made of water.

When something difficult happens, she can cry, show her weakness appropriately, and seek comfort and help from her partner.

But for men, they can only hold on.

Especially in middle age, when there are seniors and juniors, work and life are full of helplessness, and there is no way to relieve negative emotions.

Therefore, every man hopes to have a certain space of solitude, stay away from everything around him, and relax himself to relieve his inner anxiety.

I read a story,

After the wife finished shopping, she passed by the parking lot and saw her husband smoking in the stalled car.

The child was about to call daddy excitedly, but she quickly stopped him and said softly: “Let daddy wait for a while. Let’s not disturb him. Let’s go home and cook first.”

When the husband walked in, he saw a table of his favorite meals in front of him, as well as his smiling wife and children.

This is probably the relationship status that all men yearn for:

When you are tired, the other person does not disturb or rush you. Instead, you give yourself time and space to relieve stress, and then accompany you gently.

Being independent when separated and sweet together is the best state of marriage.

When two people are together, they really don’t have to talk all the time. Instead, even if they are silent, they don’t feel awkward, they just feel comfortable.

Be relaxed and relaxed, and men will become increasingly inseparable from you.

3. A stable sense of belonging

A place of peace of mind is where you and I belong.

But in this impetuous era, many people have to choose to wander, with their bodies and minds on the road all the time.

It’s not just women who crave stability, but men too.

They also want to gain love and warmth from the bottom of their hearts, hoping that the people around them can let them take off all their defenses and give them a sense of belonging.

I still remember a piece of news where a man fell drunk in a subway station after socializing and kept calling his wife.

When his wife arrived, she didn’t blame him at all, but hugged him tightly. This scene made many onlookers cry.

Being accepted, valued, and tolerated is the true sense of belonging.

No matter how far he goes, there is always a home with lights on and tea hot for him. That is the warmest harbor.

For men, this will be a great spiritual encouragement, touching the depths of their hearts and making them cherish this relationship even more!

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True love should never be one-way.

Men carry heavy burdens on their shoulders and do not forget to take good care of women. Women should also try to give men corresponding trust, understanding, and protection.

To meet each other’s needs, the relationship can blossom all the way and grow old.

No matter what kind of “feeling” it is, if you catch it, you will firmly grasp the relationship, especially the last one, which can make him love you for the rest of his life without regrets.