Jose asked Samo, “How much money do you want your husband to earn?”
Samo replied, “If I don’t like him, I won’t marry a millionaire; if I like him, I will marry a billionaire.”
Jose commented, “So, you always prefer a wealthy man.”
Samo sighed, “There are exceptions too.”
“What about me?” Jose asked casually.
Samo replied, “As long as there’s enough money to eat.”
After their conversation, we can feel more sweetness between them.
In a relationship, one person has to learn to take the initiative for love to continue perfectly.
Sometimes we expect men to take the lead, but being too proactive can be tiring. If one day a man stops contacting you, women shouldn’t give up but do this.
Learn to love yourself, stay independent
As Norwegian playwright Ibsen said, “What is a person’s first duty? The answer is simple: to be oneself.”
In real life, everyone should be independent and being oneself is the most important thing.
When a man stops contacting you, don’t let love cloud your judgment and do something foolish.
Endless entanglement will only make someone more repelled by you. Only by loving yourself first will someone be willing to love you.
Loving yourself is the beginning of lifelong romance. Someone who knows how to love themselves can earn the respect of others.
As a woman, never pin your hopes on a man because when you do, you wait. But when you place your hopes on yourself, you run.
Independence is always a woman’s strength in facing life. When a woman is independent in her career and finances, others will respect and understand her more. When a man stops taking the lead, women should focus on themselves and not obsess over whether a man loves them.
Instead of waiting for someone to love you, it’s better to love yourself.
Give each other time and space, avoid clinging
“Because of love, there is compassion; because of understanding, there is tolerance.”
When we truly love someone, we are willing to be compassionate and patient with them.
Sometimes when a man stops taking the lead, it’s not because he doesn’t love anymore, but maybe because he has inner pressures and struggles.
When a man becomes less proactive, as a woman, try not to cling desperately but give the other person some time and space.
During this calm period, we may have different experiences and insights about this relationship.
If a man truly loves you, he will come find you on his own because he can’t bear to let you go.
Love cannot be forced. If someone truly loves you, you don’t need to compromise or beg for their attention.
When a man stops contacting you, give each other some space and time. Allowing a relationship to calm down and not clinging is also a sign of self-respect.
Reflect seriously, avoid making a scene
Why do men like women who are emotionally stable? The answer is simple: because emotionally stable women can maintain their composure in any situation. They don’t get upset by a few words from others, nor do they choose to avoid because of others’ opinions.
When facing a situation, they have their own independent thoughts and can distinguish right from wrong.
When a man stops contacting you, don’t just blame the other person but also reflect on your own issues.
In a relationship, maintaining it requires the effort of both parties, not just one willingly giving. When problems arise, learn to communicate and solve them instead of blaming the other.
Reflect seriously and avoid making a scene. Only then will a man want to get closer to you.
As a woman, don’t rely on a man anytime, anywhere, and don’t have any expectations of a man.
For a woman, what matters is the relationship, while for a man, it’s the feeling.
When a man stops contacting you, your lack of disturbance, tears, or tantrums will make him see you as special.
Men find women troublesome primarily because they have lost patience with you.
If a man wants to escape from you, it means he is starting to not care about you. If you continue to cling at this time, it will only make the other person more disgusted with you.
When a man stops contacting you, learn to do the above three things to make a man truly admire you.