It is said that “the heart is separated by the belly.”

Sometimes, you may have been with someone for a long time, but what they say may not be what they truly think. So, understanding a person should start with body language.

In love, both men and women may lack some sense of security. When facing someone who loves you deeply, you may fear losing them.

Even if the other person hasn’t done anything to hurt you, you may still have many thoughts. Sometimes, they may have done something to hurt you without you knowing.

In this world, people with a sense of security are becoming fewer and fewer.

While words may lie, body language cannot. If you want to know if someone loves you, start with their body language.

Someone who loves you wants to be with you

Someone who loves you always wants to be with you. When you are together, they want to do things with you like reading or drawing.

Even though you are doing ordinary things together, it feels especially wonderful in your eyes.

Someone who sticks close to you when walking together must love you

I remember when I was not in a relationship, I went shopping once.

I saw a couple walking in front of us, the guy’s arm around the girl’s waist, holding her hand with the other.

At that moment, I thought they didn’t need to stick so closely; it’s best if each walked their own path.

But later, when I was in a relationship, I realized that when you truly love someone, you like being close to them.

Being inseparable doesn’t mean you are always standing together or walking side by side; it means being close to each other when together.

A person who truly loves you will enjoy sticking close to you when walking together. This not only shows their love for you but also declares to the world that you belong to each other.

Compared to those who walk far away from you when they see acquaintances and are afraid of being seen with you, this person is the one who can give you a sense of security.

Someone who loves you often gives you hugs

If someone loves you, they enjoy hugging you.

Recently, a friend sent me a message saying, “When my boyfriend and I just started dating, every time we were apart for a while, he would hug me tightly when he arrived. But recently, his behavior changed, and I think he might have lost interest.”

When I received this message, I advised her not to overthink it. However, after some time, I found out her boyfriend was already with someone else, playing ball on the playground.

The woman’s intuition was right. If a man truly loves you, he will give you hugs. But if he suddenly stops, it means his heart is with someone else, and he won’t give you the warmest hugs.

When parents love us, they always give us hugs to protect us. Similarly, when someone loves us, they will treat us like parents and give us hugs.

Some may say that wanting to hug someone is just a habit, but think about it, how could someone who never hugs you truly love you?

Someone who doesn’t love you will show repulsion when you touch them

Someone who doesn’t love you will show signs of repulsion when you touch them.

When a man starts pursuing a woman, he may give her many gifts and want to hold her hand. But if the woman doesn’t let him, it shows lack of interest.

However, if a man is highly regarded by a woman and she likes him, she will be happy when he holds her hand and may even do it voluntarily.

It works the same way the other way around. If a man truly loves a woman, he will willingly hold her hand. Sometimes, when a woman holds a man’s hand first, he won’t refuse or repel.

It’s like the saying goes, “birds of a feather flock together.”

If someone truly loves another person and finds them very attractive, they will be happy when that person approaches them.

But if someone doesn’t love the other person, they will feel dirty and disgusted when that person gets close to them.

The most intimate actions are reserved for the person you love the most. This statement is entirely true. You may say you love someone, but your actions prove your true feelings.

Recently, I saw a video on a platform:

A man and a woman had been married for three months, but the woman wouldn’t let the man touch her. The man thought he could wait until she was ready.

But later, the woman took all the money from the house and left.

A woman who doesn’t even want her husband to touch her must have had no intentions of being intimate before marriage and doesn’t truly love the man.

Maybe the man wasn’t very smart and lacked emotional intelligence, so he believed the woman. But when she refused his touch, he should have realized that if she won’t let him touch her after marriage, she doesn’t sincerely want to be with him.

Whether someone loves you or not, their body language will tell you.