Some women are hateful. Not only do they betray their marriages, but they betray their marriages with acquaintances around them. Such behavior is simply outrageous.
So why do they do this? Now let’s listen to the honest truths told by three women and see why women “cheat” and like to find “acquaintances.”
A, 32 years old
I am 32 years old and I have an extramarital affair. My lover is a very good friend of my husband. He often comes to our house for dinner. Sometimes, he will invite us to go out for dinner.
Although I originally had a good relationship with my husband, I never thought of doing anything to disgrace him. However, in the past two years, my relationship with my husband has become worse and worse. We often quarrel, and this At that time, he gave me a lot of enlightenment and comfort.
Gradually, I felt that he was much better than my husband. Not only was he capable and able to make money, but more importantly, he had a good personality and was extremely considerate.
Soon, the nature of my feelings for him changed. In the past, I just regarded him as my husband’s good friend, but now, I regard him as the man I love.
Therefore, I took the initiative to approach him. Under my offensive, he quickly sneaked up with me. After being with him, I felt very happy. This kind of happiness was something my husband had never given me, so until now, I have maintained this extramarital affair with him.
In my opinion, the main reason why women betray their marriages with acquaintances is that they tend to fall in love over time.
B, 36 years old
I am 36 years old this year. I betrayed my marriage to a male friend who I have grown up with. In fact, I really had no intention of betraying my marriage, let alone cheating on my marriage with him. However, things often develop unexpectedly. outside.
My husband’s job was transferred the year before last. Although he got a promotion and a salary increase, due to the special nature of his job, he often needs to travel. The time of each business trip is not fixed. Sometimes it is three to five days, and sometimes it is even ten days. He couldn’t see his people for half a month.
These days of less gatherings and more separations made me feel particularly depressed, so I often complained to my friend of the opposite sex whom I had grown up with since I was a child. As a result, as time went by, I felt a lot more in my heart than I should have. thoughts.
I think since my husband has been away from me for a long time, why don’t I go out and find a man? Anyway, even if I find a man, my husband will never find out.
The more I thought about it, the more I felt the urge to betray my marriage, and my friend of the opposite sex who had been with me since childhood happened to be a suitable candidate.
I know that he has always liked me in his heart, but he was just afraid that I wouldn’t like him, so he would rather be my friend than confess his feelings to me, because he was afraid that he wouldn’t even be a friend by then.
But in my heart, I actually have an unexplainable feeling for him. I think I regard him as a friend, but my relationship with him is more than a friend. I think I like him, but not to that extent. This is probably what is called friendship, but love is not enough.
In the end, he and I did something we shouldn’t have done, and I don’t regret it. I can’t stay alone in an empty house just because my husband often travels on business, right?
In my opinion, the main reason why women betray their marriages with acquaintances is because they stay with acquaintances for a long time, so they are more likely to betray their marriages.
C, 37 years old
I am 37 years old. The person I cheated on my marriage with is my colleague. The main reason why I cheated on my marriage with my colleague is that I am very familiar with my colleague and I know his personality. Therefore, I don’t need to worry about being blackmailed or extorted by him. He threatened.
Like me, he is married, and he values work as much as I do. Therefore, the two of us have the means to restrain each other, so the two of us will work together to hide the relationship between us.
I think this is also the reason why most women choose to start with acquaintances.
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The reason why women cheat on an acquaintance is that it is easy to fall in love with an acquaintance over time, and because they know the acquaintance well and don’t have to worry about the other party blackmailing them.