Renowned writer said:

“Some things become less important over time, but some things still matter; the same thing can be important to some people while not to others.”

Everyone grows from a little girl to an adult. When a woman is a young girl, she tends to care about many things, like her boyfriend and husband.

When just married, a woman cares a lot about the couple’s way of life and their marital life.

Because when a woman marries, it seems like it’s for that man, so they get married.

But during dating, two people experience romance and keep many dreams.

However, after marriage, facing the realities of life, they realize everyone is the same, and no one will be with you till the end.

A once naive girl, after marriage, may become sloppy and turn into a nagging wife.

Many wonder if women, after experiencing ups and downs, still care about marital life after turning 40?

Below are the secrets of three women, which might provide better insights.

Caring

Mrs. Gany has been married to her husband for many years, having met in college.

Reflecting on the past, Mrs. Gany finds those times special. Though life after marriage isn’t as good as before, her husband still treats her respectfully.

Mrs. Gany believes her husband’s continued care is due to their challenging journey from students to now.

Especially in Mrs. Gany’s era, studying was tough. Their togetherness realized their dreams, enduring many hardships.

All this strengthened their bond, leading to their current life.

Mrs. Gany still cares about her marital life with her husband, desiring his attention and mutual care.

Valuing love and her husband highly, she particularly cares about this relationship and marriage.

Many start from college and proceed to marriage for love, naturally caring about marital life after marriage.

For some, love knows no age limits. Even past 40, 50, or 80, they continue loving each other.

Because they love each other, they deeply care about each other.

Not Caring

Mrs. Wang has been married to her husband for a long time. She didn’t have many feelings for him, marrying him casually due to her age and his favorable conditions.

Mrs. Wang never cared about their marital life. As long as he provided money and fulfilled her material needs, that was enough.

With maids at home and a nanny for the children, Mrs. Wang lived a comfortable life, untouched by household chores, focusing on cosmetics daily.

Her husband often came home late, but she didn’t mind, as long as the money came in.

Some people plan what they want from their partners before marriage. For some, it’s not about love but the material comfort they seek.

Many such women are seen as sensible by men, but sometimes, those with no demands are the ones who don’t love themselves.

When a woman becomes more sensible and stops caring about the other, it indicates the love is gone. Some people never cared and were always sensible, never loving the other.

Previously, it was puzzling how one could marry someone they don’t love, but some seek different things, not necessarily love.

Some people simply don’t care about marital life, emphasizing material comfort. For some, a partner’s looks don’t matter; personal comfort is key.

There are selfish people in life, always prioritizing themselves, appearing sensible.

Ms. Lisa strongly cares about marital life.

When she married her man, he promised to treat her well in the future.

At that time, she was a very naive girl, and his words made her ecstatic. Despite family opposition, she insisted on marrying him.

Her husband had nothing when they married, but Ms. Lisa wasn’t worried. She believed as long as she loved him, everything would be fine.

After marriage, facing financial difficulties due to her husband’s poor background, she endured hardships, took care of the kids, and managed everything.

Ms. Lisa sacrificed a lot in the marriage, deeply loving her husband, hence caring about their marital life, desiring his attention and understanding.

Sometimes, they argue because Ms. Lisa demands a lot from her husband.

When you care about someone, you tend to ask for more. If you don’t care, you wouldn’t demand. But when you care, the other might find you unreasonable.

Do women still care about marital life after 40? Some do, some don’t. It depends on what they seek.

If it’s love and care from a man, of course, they care.

But for some, it’s about material comfort, not love. Such people won’t care about their life.