To gauge how much someone loves you, you can tell from their actions. Often, when someone deeply loves another person, they might exhibit some seemingly silly behaviors. These actions may be hard for others to understand, but they are the behaviors of someone deeply in love. So, what are some of these “silly” behaviors?
Firstly, when deeply in love, one’s mind is filled with thoughts of that person. They want to be with them all the time, even going as far as intentionally buying couple items while shopping.
It’s normal to buy couple items when in love, but when the urge to replace everything in life with couple items arises, it may seem a bit foolish. Like they say, dressing as a couple, acting as a couple.
Though it’s a joke, sometimes it’s true. Usually, two people deeply in love with each other don’t need items to prove their love.
However, when love reaches a deep level, imagining spending every moment together, wanting to have the same items as the other person, and feeling immense happiness using the same item at the same time becomes a priority.
This leads to everything at home being couple items bought based on personal preferences—from toothpaste and toothbrushes to clothes and bags. It feels like being constantly together, breathing the same air under the same sky, using products made from the same mold, resulting in an overwhelming sense of happiness.
Secondly, when deeply in love, one always wants to surprise their partner, even if it means traveling for hours to their city.
We have many long-distance relationship friends around us. Jessica and Antonio met by chance in a restaurant over a glass of water and started a beautiful long-distance relationship.
After a perfect encounter, they embraced the challenges of a long-distance relationship. Antonio happened to be in Jessica’s city only for a business trip.
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder. The over 5,000 kilometers between them made their relationship exceptionally beautiful. They cherished every moment together. Due to Jessica’s busy work schedule, they agreed to meet at least once a month besides daily video calls.
So, the beginning or end of each month became their meeting day. Sometimes, to spend more time together, Jessica would work overtime on weekends and take a day off on Monday.
One time, when Jessica was sick with a fever and her period, feeling miserable lying on her cold bed, she wished Antonio could be there to make her ginger tea and give her medicine. Tears streamed down her face as she texted Antonio, expressing her disappointment that he wasn’t there when she needed him the most.
Antonio, receiving the message while busy presenting a month-long project plan to a client, took a minute to reply, promising to take care of her once he was free. Then, he immersed himself back into work.
Reading the message, Jessica quietly took her medicine and went to bed. In the middle of the night, as she slept peacefully, there was a knock on the door. With her tired body, Jessica got up to answer it and found the dusty Antonio standing outside, leaving her speechless and puzzled.
Antonio rushed to hug Jessica, apologizing for being late and promising to be there for her every moment. Jessica was at a loss for words, feeling like her throat was choked up.
As Antonio patted Jessica’s head, he revealed that the busy project he was working on was in Jessica’s city. With the project getting approved, he could now stay with her. As the project leader, Antonio decided to stay in her city for their relationship.
Looking at the exhausted Antonio, Jessica didn’t know what to say. Later, she found out that Antonio took on the project in her city not for a promotion but, in a sense, a demotion. Yet, Antonio said it was worth it to be together.
Lastly, when deeply in love, one may publicly display affection without considering the time or place—known as “feeding dog food” in Chinese slang.
Often, we witness public displays of affection around us. Deeply in love, two individuals may show affection freely without caring about the surroundings or time.
At the dinner table, seeing something the other person likes, one might pour it into their bowl. While queuing for drinks, if the other seems thirsty, one rushes to get them a drink, disregarding appearances. Walking on the street, if it’s windy, one may even offer their clothes to the other. These actions stem from love.
So, when you encounter someone who treats you this way, cherish them because you hold a special place in their heart.