In this world, many things often have varying degrees of depth.

Liking something can have many different levels of intensity.

Even in love, the feeling of loving someone deeply varies greatly.

Some love is just fleeting, a momentary feeling of liking that quickly fades.

But there is also a kind of love that may not start out intense, but gradually grows stronger and deeper over time, until you completely fall in love, and that person occupies your entire being.

Loving someone like that, the person being loved always feels the clear affection, without any doubt.

At the same time, when we completely fall in love with someone, we unconsciously start to change in subtle ways.

Very clingy, and occasionally quite childish.

As adults, we often stand alone, even if we are by ourselves, we can handle many things, take care of ourselves as if we don’t need anyone else.

When we are so independent, we might think that even when we are in love, we will still be the same, not too proactive, not always wanting to depend on the other person, not constantly needing to be together.

But in reality, when we truly fall for someone, we can’t remain as calm and rational.

No matter how aloof and unapproachable we seemed to others before, from that moment on, we always want to see the other person, be with them, and do so many things together.

Without reason, we always want to be by their side, to always be able to look at them, and even when we have just parted, we quickly want to message them, to see them again soon.

And when we are with them, we show a very naive side, completely defenseless, being the most authentic version of ourselves, not at all like an adult, but more like a child, being petulant, acting cute, and seeking hugs.

This side of us, we show only to that person, to others, we still appear mature.

Will be very caring, always wanting to take good care of the other person.

Loving someone makes us revert to our childhood selves, and also brings out our nurturing instincts.

Rather than constantly demanding from the other person, hoping they fulfill our wishes, for the one we love, our eyes and hearts are filled with tenderness.

For reasons unknown, we always pay close attention to the other person, and feel especially sorry for them. Even though we know the other person can take care of themselves, we still want to protect them, not wanting them to suffer any grievances, and unable to bear seeing them in too much pain.

Whenever we find out that something bad has happened to the other person, our hearts ache, and when they are unhappy, we feel the same way. Even if we cannot provide them with a better life, we still feel sorry.

That person is our lover, but also someone we want to love and care for with all our might.

We care about every move they make, and to make their life better, we start to work harder and plan more seriously for the future.

Before that person appeared, we never thought about who we would be with in the future, but after they appeared, we never thought about being with anyone else again.

Unusually firm, willing to face everything together.

Many loves may seem genuine, but once one person discovers something negative about the other, or if something happens, like falling ill or family difficulties, the other person will just leave.

Relationships involve some calculation, which is understandable, but that kind of love is ultimately shallow and cannot stand the test of time.

Wholeheartedly falling in love with someone, even if we had some considerations before falling in love, after falling in love, we no longer have any doubts, only single-mindedly wanting to spend the rest of our lives with them.

At that moment, we are very certain that the other person is the one we have been looking for, and after choosing them, just like the vows say, we will never leave no matter if we are poor or rich, healthy or sick.

We are willing to be with them, to share all the achievements in life, and to face all the storms that come our way. No matter what, we will always tightly hold their hand and move forward together.

To others, that person may be ordinary, not so special compared to many others, but to us, they are unique, completely one of a kind.

In our future, that person will always be there, already integrated into our lives.

Many people say that it is difficult to find true love today, whether it’s men or women, it’s just a matter of weighing the pros and cons.

Indeed, a good relationship is hard to come by, and everyone has their own requirements for a future partner. However, that doesn’t mean that love doesn’t exist, or that we won’t encounter it.

Regardless, we still have to believe in love and dare to love.

When we can do this, if we don’t encounter it, it’s a pity, but once we do, it will bring us great happiness.

Loving someone well, completely falling in love with someone, and walking hand in hand with that person, life will truly be wonderful.

That is always worth looking forward to and always worth pursuing.

Being loved and giving love are always very beautiful things, a good partner can always give us the best healing.