In life, everyone seems to have quite a few regrets.

One kind of regret is realizing the value of something only after losing it.

In relationships, many people seem to be like this. When someone is around, they take them for granted, not knowing how to treat them well. It’s only when that person stops loving them or leaves that they feel regretful about their behavior.

Until that day, they regret not saying certain things and not cherishing the bond they shared.

Since then, they’ve been thinking that if they could start over, they wouldn’t be the same and would treat the other person even better.

But in reality, time cannot be turned back. Many things cannot be redone.

The world is ever-changing, and life is full of surprises. Since we don’t know which will come first, tomorrow or the unexpected, it’s better to cherish the present rather than always think about what might happen in the future.

Give Your Love to the One by Your Side

When it comes to love, people often feel that what they have isn’t good enough. They are more attracted to those they don’t have and believe that these people are better suited for them.

As a result, when they are with someone, they often complain about the other person and are always thinking about someone else.

When we are like this, it’s unfair to the person by our side, and we won’t be able to experience much happiness.

Actually, many times, we think that other people are better not because they are really better, but simply because they are not around us and we haven’t experienced them.

No matter how precious something is or how good someone is, once we have it, we find it hard to appreciate its value. And when it’s something we never had, we always think it’s wonderful.

Frankly, when we think other people are better, we shouldn’t forget that the person by our side is the one we chose from the vast sea of people and has been with us for a long time.

In this short life, we really shouldn’t always focus on others. Instead, we should cherish the person we chose and live a fulfilling life with them. Understanding how to cherish the present will lead to potential happiness.

Treat the One in Front of You Well and Express Your Love Promptly

One form of not cherishing someone is always thinking about someone else and ignoring the person who loves you. Another form is not treating the person by your side well, even without thinking about someone else.

It might be because you are busy taking care of others and dealing with other matters, and you expect the other person to understand. Or perhaps you think that you’re not capable enough at the moment and want to fulfill their desires later.

No matter if you neglect your partner for someone or something else, or if you don’t show your love for them at the moment, both behaviors are unacceptable.

Other people and other things are important, but our partners are just as important, even more so than many other people and things. We should never ignore the closest person to us, but instead treat them well.

As for how to treat that person in the future, that’s a matter for later. We can’t be sure if there will be a day, and even if there is, we don’t know if that person will still be with us.

So, we really shouldn’t procrastinate. We should take care of our partner and spend time with them within our capabilities.

The rest of our lives could be many decades, or just a few short years. The future is always unpredictable, so to minimize regrets for the rest of our lives, we should cherish the present.

Do what you want to do right now, and love the person next to you. Don’t always imagine treating them well when they are not around or in the future.

You don’t have to think that you need to provide a big house or a large diamond for the person by your side. Even a bouquet of flowers or a snack they like is a thoughtful gesture and can be very touching.

In short, if you want to say something to the other person, just say it, and if you want to do something for them, just do it.

No matter when it is, the person in front of you is the one you should cherish the most. We should always cherish the person in front of us.