Someone once said, “For women, marriage is either heaven or hell.”

A truly beautiful love can make a woman better, while a terrible relationship only drains her youth and time.

For a woman, finding a good husband is lucky, but if it goes wrong, it’s torture.

Jenny and her husband had been married for five years. Before marriage, she was a career-focused woman. After marriage, to better care for her husband and child, she gave up her favorite career and chose to focus on her family.

Her husband loved seafood, so she learned to cook various seafood dishes for him, even giving up her time for shopping and hanging out with friends to take care of his needs.

However, after five years of this, one day when her husband was going out, Jenny asked to go along and meet his friends. But he bluntly refused, criticizing her appearance and saying she should stay home and not embarrass him.

Feeling disheartened, Jenny realized that loving a man too much in a relationship is useless. She wanted to argue but thought it wasn’t worth it. She realized that loving someone so much that you lose yourself will only lead to being abandoned.

His words were a wake-up call. From that day on, Jenny started to care for herself, going out with friends and dressing up. This change irritated her husband, leading to quarrels and even physical violence, claiming she should only be a housewife.

Unexpectedly, her beloved husband turned abusive. This crossed the line, and Jenny decided to divorce him.

When she presented the divorce papers, he signed without hesitation, saying, “I don’t want a woman like you, even if you pay me.”

After the divorce, Jenny was determined to live life on her terms. She didn’t seek a new relationship but returned to her career.

In four years of entrepreneurship, she dedicated herself fully. Working tirelessly paid off, and she became an independent woman, starting her own company and becoming a boss.

Her life became exciting, filled with gatherings, conversations with celebrities, and continuous self-improvement. Her ex-husband tried to reconcile multiple times, but she refused each time.

Jenny said, “Never rely on a man for happiness or try to change him. Loving yourself is the right choice in any relationship. When you love yourself, others will love you too.”

Independence is a woman’s strength. Relying too much on a man leads to disappointment. Being excellent earns respect, and losing oneself for love only cheapens one’s worth.

Don’t give too much. Love yourself while loving a man. Respect and care will follow when you value yourself. Remember, there’s no free lunch, and a man’s love is based on your charm. Lose it, and so does his admiration.