Every woman wants to marry a prince charming, but reality is often harsh. Sometimes, the prince charming you like might not be as gentlemanly as you think. At times, he might just be treating you like prey.

Lily and John met two years ago at a friend’s party. Lily was immediately drawn to him. Their relationship became closer over time.

One day, John confessed his love for Lily, and they started dating. Eventually, they moved in together. Less than six months into their cohabitation, John broke up with her, claiming he was bored.

Lily was heartbroken. She felt betrayed. She never imagined that the man who claimed to love her so much would do this to her.

In real life, every woman has expectations about love. Many women, once in love, are willing to sacrifice everything. There are many naive girls in the world. But I want to say that sometimes, the prince charming you like might just be treating you like prey. So don’t be fooled by sweet words. Someone who loves you won’t hurt you.

Love Is Selfless:

As Eileen Chang once said, “Only love without purpose is true.” We meet all kinds of people in life, but those who are truly good to you are few. Any task becomes easy when done willingly. True love is selfless, not calculating. If you truly love someone, you will give unconditionally.

If they love you back, they will respond.

There’s much to learn on the path of love.

The secret to a long-lasting relationship is to learn to give and understand. When you learn to see things from each other’s perspective, your love will be more meaningful.

Those who only think of themselves in love will never find happiness. They are selfish. They only see their own sacrifices and not their partner’s efforts. Being with someone like this will only make you more anxious. Even if you have a good relationship, you will eventually go your separate ways.

True love should be without burden or pressure. If two people truly love each other, learning to give for each other is the best expression of love.

When a man truly loves you, he won’t have any demands. If he only thinks of himself, he won’t truly love you.

Love Is Protection:

“We should get a divorce.” In the trailer, facing her cheating husband, Grace calmly says this. Her eyes are devoid of love and tenderness, filled with despair and hatred. In real life, many women have been hurt in marriage. The reason a woman chooses to leave the man she loves is because she has been utterly disappointed.

In real life, a man’s care and affection for a woman is essential. When a woman takes off her high heels and puts on an apron for you, it shows her love and trust. As a man, you shouldn’t let her down.

Giving them more love and tenderness is the best way to express your love. Some men are completely different before and after marriage. Before marriage, they are attentive, but after marriage, their flaws are exposed. This kind of extreme change can make a woman feel very wronged.

In real life, every woman craves love and to be loved. Sometimes, he chooses you because he is serious about this relationship. If you can’t even give him the most basic love, how can you give him a lifetime of happiness? So, even in ordinary love, two people need to work on it. If you truly love this woman,

Give her a little more care and love in everyday life. It will fill her heart with little surprises. True love lies in the details. So when you learn to love, your love will be even more beautiful.

If a man in real life can’t even give you basic love, then he only loves himself. Don’t fool yourself, ladies.

Love Is Understanding:

I once read a sentence in a book: “The more afraid a person is of you, the more they love you.”

Think about it in real life. This sentence isn’t wrong. But we must understand that a person’s attitude towards you often reflects their feelings for you. If they can tolerate and understand you, it means they love you deeply.

But in real life, many people don’t understand. They think their partner’s compromises are a reason to be demanding. This kind of thinking is actually the most foolish. The most important thing in a relationship is mutual understanding. You understand my struggles, and I understand your hardships.

A happy family needs two people to create it. Many families break up because they don’t understand each other.

On the path of love, everyone has grievances. But only when we treat our relationships sincerely will our lives together get better. Understanding is the bridge that connects communication. If two people in real life don’t understand and care for each other, their relationship will eventually crack.

True love is beautiful and pure. Only when you learn to see things from each other’s perspective will the barriers and conflicts between you decrease. If you always emphasize your own sacrifices and disregard your partner’s feelings, you will only have more and more conflicts. So, learning to understand is also a way to love.

When a man learns to understand you, he will truly love you.

Women are emotional. Once they fall in love, they’re willing to give everything. But I hope that all women, when facing love, can be more rational. Giving love to those who deserve it is true happiness.