Being a woman, you can be short-sighted, but you must have goals and direction; you can be in a chaotic world, but you must have a good heart, which is a woman’s most beautiful pass.

Whether it’s love, family, or friendship, when interacting with a woman, we value her character. Only a woman with good character can make us choose to engage and sustain the relationship for a long time.

When encountering those indecent women, once we understand their true nature, anyone will reconsider the relationship and may even choose to stay away.

Ancient wisdom says: “Near vermilion, one gets stained red; near ink, one gets stained black.” Whoever you associate with, you will eventually become like them.

To determine if a woman is worth engaging with, you must first look at her character, see if she is a decent woman.

So, how can you tell if a woman is decent?

In life, they may disguise themselves, but their phones, as their daily companions, are hard to disguise.

A decent woman, her phone holds no such traces.

Flirting with Multiple Opposite-Sex Friends Simultaneously

Yi Shu once said: “A smart woman should act like she knows nothing, appear foolish.”

When interacting with the opposite sex, women should pretend to be foolish, even if they know a man is interested, they should not cleverly test him or flirt with him.

If a woman likes a man, she can chat with him, get to know him, see if you are compatible. However, a woman should understand that to make a man have a better impression of her, she must be reserved, maintain a sense of mystery.

Only then will a man be more interested in you, love you more deeply, and consider you more worthy of his love.

If you have no feelings for them at all and have no intention of further developing with them, don’t cleverly assume others like you, use their feelings, flirt with them, give hope, and then disappoint them.

A woman who frequently flirts with different men on her phone is not decent because she doesn’t know how to reject others and handle her emotions. Once exposed, it will leave a very negative impression.

Constantly Lying When Interacting with Others

Giovanni Ori once said: “The most valuable qualities of a woman are the ability to discern good from evil and a sense of shame.”

Women who can do these two things will surely be liked and more willing to engage with them.

However, some women may pretend to be kind in public, appear sincere when interacting with others. But once they are out of sight, in the hidden corners, their true nature is revealed.

Especially on the phone, behind the keyboard, they start telling lies, without a word of sincerity.

For example, some women, even though they have a partner, when chatting with other opposite-sex individuals, they claim to be single to win their favor and gain some advantages. Because it’s on the phone, others won’t know if what she says is true or false, as long as she hides it well, her partner won’t know about it.

A decent woman would never tell such lies. A woman with these traces on her phone is simply not decent.

Manipulating Others, Speaking Ill of Them

A woman should be like what Haruki Murakami said:

No matter what everyone in the world says, I believe my feelings are correct. No matter how others see it, I will not disrupt my rhythm. Things you like can naturally persist, while things you dislike won’t last long.

In various relationships, women should also not easily believe what others say or see, but should rely on their own feelings and judgment. Don’t let others disrupt your rhythm or influence your judgment.

In life, there are always some people who like to gossip behind others, manipulate, and slander them.

A woman should understand that even if you speak ill of others, get a thrill out of it, what other benefits can it bring?

If these things are not known to others, it’s fine, but if people know you are such a person, the consequences are predictable, and others will not confide in you again.

A decent woman’s phone will be clean, without things she’s afraid others might see. Similarly, a woman who often manipulates others, speaks ill of them on her phone, is simply too hypocritical and not decent.

Dostoevsky said: “A woman’s eyes are always sharp, even the most honest woman who knows nothing about the world’s evils may suddenly reveal astonishing wisdom.”

A woman may not be smart, but she must be sincere in her interactions; when a woman is smart, she must remember not to be outsmarted by her own cleverness.

A decent woman’s thoughts are simple, pure, without any messy ideas or a desire to harm others for no reason, no matter where she is.

Those indecent women, who think they are clever, good at disguising themselves. But in their phones, there will always be some traces, revealing the key to their character.

To determine if a woman is decent, just check her phone for these traces.