There is a lyric that goes: “Ambiguousness makes people suffer so much that they can’t find any evidence of love.”
It can be said that it speaks to the aspirations of many people.
The ambiguous period is the most hazy and beautiful time in a relationship, but an uncertain relationship can also bring great insecurity to people, making you feel that the other person is suddenly far away and sometimes close, and the relationship between them sometimes heats up and sometimes drops to freezing point. .
How can we maintain the emotional warmth and make the relationship between two people develop in a good direction?
Let me share with you 5 tips to make him/her more attracted to you.
1. Chat in depth and get closer
Topics that are too everyday will not only fail to upgrade the relationship between two people, but will also easily make people feel boring. If you always ask the other person what they have eaten and whether they slept, they will soon lose interest in chatting with you.
The best way to enhance relationships is to expose yourself, share some inner secrets with each other, your views on some things, and understand each other’s emotional outlook and values, which can help you get closer.
For example, chatting about interesting childhood stories, talking about your respective family members, or expressing each other’s thoughts on current affairs can make the other person closer to you.
2. Express your good feelings more clearly
Some people are overly reserved in relationships and guard their inner secrets carefully, fearing that they will lose the initiative once the other party discovers them.
In fact, the advancement of feelings requires encouragement. If the relationship remains weak after being together for a long time, the other party will gradually lose enthusiasm.
Sincerity is the best way to tell the other person your impressions and opinions of him, such as “you are very humorous” and “it’s very comfortable to get along with you”. From time to time, release some intimate feelings, but be careful not to accept them when they are good, and express your love unexpectedly. , or have some excessive behavior that crosses the line, which can easily scare the other party away.
3. Use appropriate methods to introduce competitors
In order to test the other person, many people will rashly introduce a “third party”. For example, after being ambiguous with a person for a period of time, they will tell the other person that they have been pursued recently, or they have been arranged by their parents to go on a blind date, thinking that this will make the other person take action to promote the relationship. , but who would have thought that the other party just said a word of blessing lukewarmly.
This is because the relationship between the two is not good enough and neither has contributed anything to the relationship. If a competitor joins the competition at this time, the other party will often give up easily.
However, if the other party has become dependent on you, is used to your existence, and feels that there is only a layer of window paper between you, and suddenly realizes that someone is likely to get there first, a sense of crisis will arise.
4. Prepare gifts for each other
On Christmas or birthdays, you can give each other gifts. The gift does not need to be expensive, but it must be full of heart. Too expensive gifts will put pressure on the other person. As long as you can clearly let the other person feel your heart, this will A gift is priceless.
You can secretly understand the other person’s preferences in advance, learn what the other person likes from daily chats and observations, or ask around friends, and then give the other person a surprise.
I believe that the moment he receives the gift, he will instantly be very fond of you.
5. Go to a DIY workshop together
This technique is especially suitable for people who are both “socially anxious”. If you are worried about running out of things to talk about, or it feels awkward for two people to sit face to face, you can go to the store to do crafts together.
In the process of making handicrafts, you can share what step you have done at any time, and you don’t have to worry about making mistakes, because occasionally showing an imperfect side will be cute, interesting, and more approachable in the eyes of the other party.
Even if you don’t talk and concentrate on the task at hand, this time is a time for two people to enjoy alone. Some casual physical contact will make each other’s hearts tremble.
The finished handicrafts can be given to each other, which is very commemorative.
Regarding ambiguity, do you have any memorable experiences? You can leave a message and share it in the comment area.
Wish everyone warm up your relationship.