A man who is willing to do these two things for you must be someone who truly loves you to the core and pampers you to your core.

What is love?

Someone replied: Love is like two extremely ugly people who regard each other as a treasure and are afraid that others will take it away.

It’s not that they don’t have self-awareness, but they think the other person is perfect in their eyes, and they worry that others will discover his perfection like they do, so they are afraid that others will take it away.

The book says: True love is not about finding a perfect lover, but looking at imperfect people with perfect eyes.

So how do you know if he really loves you?

See if he has done these two things:

1. I will come to you when you are at your most beautiful, but I will not leave you when you are at your lowest.

It is not difficult to say that I love you when you are bright and beautiful, but what is difficult is that he is still willing to stay with you when you are down and out.

2020 is a low period in many people’s lives. My friend Qiqi is no exception. She is in the clothing business and has opened several clothing stores. At the beginning of this year, all the stores were closed. She went bankrupt and was in debt. As a result, she suffered from depression. The friends I used to play with during my good days have lost contact one by one.

Just when she thought her boyfriend would lose contact, he appeared next to her. Every time she was in a bad mood and lost her temper, he would coax her, comfort her, and tell her: “Don’t be afraid, as long as I’m here, it doesn’t matter if the money is gone. We’ll make it back in the future,” he always told her. Never give up.

In August, her boyfriend used all his savings to reopen a clothing store for her to manage. Because she is good at this aspect of business, she is now running a prosperous and prosperous business.

A man who truly loves you will be reluctant to bear hardships for you. However, in this real world, you don’t have to endure hardship just because you don’t want to. At this time, the man who truly loves you will rush in front of you and protect you from the wind and rain.

In the novel “The Gift of the Magi”, the American writer O. Henry tells the story of a poor couple, Jim and Della, racking their brains to give each other a Christmas gift.

The couple was so poor that they each only had one thing that they were particularly proud of. Jim only has a gold watch, a family heirloom passed down from his grandfather to his father, who in turn passed it down to him. Della, on the other hand, only has one head of hair that she is proud of.

Two poor people with only a few precious possessions left, yet each gave up everything for the other. The wife sold her proud hair to buy a watch chain for her husband; the husband sold a family heirloom to buy a hair comb for his wife.

A man who is willing to spend money for you may not necessarily love you, but a man who is unwilling to spend money for you must not love you.

A man who truly loves you, even if he has nothing, will still have everything he has to love you and take care of you.

He may not be very capable, but he will always give you the best**** within his ability.

It’s not unusual to have someone by your side when things are going well for you.

When you are down, the person who is willing to accompany you is the person worthy of spending the rest of your life with you. Don’t always believe in a man’s promise. Only the person who is willing to take action is the person who truly loves you.

2. Someone who thinks about you in everything, thinks of you everywhere, and treats you like a child

A man who truly loves you will not be able to help but spend time on you.

As long as it is something you like, he will encourage you to do it. At the same time, he is also willing to spend time with you. For example, if you like shopping, he will go shopping with you, even if he hates this activity. For another example, if you like mountain climbing, then even if he is a typical homebody, he is willing to step out of the house for you and accompany you to climb mountains.

My friend Claire’s first relationship was with Moore. Moore chased Claire for a long time. Claire was finally moved by Moore’s sweet words and they got together, but this love exhausted Claire’s strength.

The two were quite sweet at first, but after more than two months, Moore was often late for dates and even forgot about them. The reason was just because they wanted to play games as a team.

Later, when Claire mentioned Moore, all she felt was endless complaints and disappointment toward Moore. She no longer had the happiness she had at the beginning. She regretted that she had been beguiled by Moore’s sweet words, and often cried to me with tears in her eyes about her sadness and sorrow.

Later, Claire plucked up the courage to break up and met her current boyfriend Raymond.

Raymond drives Claire to and from get off work every day, rain or shine, and always holds her hand on the road. When Claire was pregnant, Raymond would boil brown sugar for Claire, dry her hair, wash her underwear, and do the things she liked with her.

When she was occasionally unhappy or in a mood, Raymond would patiently listen to what she had to say without interrupting. He would listen carefully to the end and believe that she was not making trouble unreasonably. When she has had enough trouble, Raymond will look at her lovingly and wipe away her tears sadly. Sometimes when the trouble is endless, Raymond will kiss her until she surrenders and make her laugh out loud.

In order to give Claire a sense of security, Raymond would take the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex around him. Raymond said: People who do not know how to restrain their emotions and body are creating enemies for emotional stability. **So he will be resolute and self-disciplined, and will only be tempted by Claire. Raymond will report what he sees every day to Claire in a timely manner. Raymond also took her to meet his family, friends, classmates, and colleagues, giving her an in-depth understanding of his life circle.

Raymond would also surprise her by giving her gifts from time to time.

Once she asked Raymond: “Husband, you see I have another wrinkle, what should I do?”

Raymond said to her seriously: “This does not affect my relationship with you, and it looks like you have gained a little more experience. There is nothing wrong with it. If you don’t have wrinkles, you are a fairy.”

Another time she asked Raymond: “Husband, you see that I have gained weight. Should I lose weight?”

Raymond said, “This meat has already been accounted for. Don’t worry, I like you no matter what you do. The main thing is that your own feelings are important.”

Every time we get together, she will be proud and show off her affection to us, her face glowing with happiness.

The same woman, meeting different men in different relationships, is truly a completely different person.

The reason?

It’s just that one person doesn’t love you and won’t spoil you, but the other person loves you to the core and is willing to spoil you to the point of being lawless.

Just like Myolie Wu said: I am very grateful to my ex and ex. One of them taught me to be an obedient girl, and the other taught me to be a mature woman. But what I am most grateful to is my current ex, who made me Be a kid again.

People who love you are afraid of giving you too little, and people who don’t love you are afraid of asking for too much.

I hope you can find someone who truly loves you and pampers you like a child.

Then we hold hands until we grow old together, watching the flowers bloom and fall, and the clouds roll and relax.